Jon Gosselin after 3 years has decided to take the highroad when it comes to his divorce from Kate.

In a PEOPLE interview he apologizes for his actions, “I am sorry, because I did stuff I wouldn't want done to me.” The couple made headlines for their divorce when Jon decided to date a steady stream of women after their split.

He continues, “I was passive-aggressive. Then I'd get mad, but I was the one who wasn't communicating."

The couple has come a long way since the beginnings of their divorce. The two can now actually get along.

Jon explains he would return to the entertainment industry but only for the right job. “I've been offered a lot of stuff," he says. "Crazy stuff. It wasn't the right fit, then or now. I don't want [my kids] thinking I take every show just to make a buck."